So, after 9 years of wanting to do this, I finally pulled it off. I had a block party! It's amazing how distracted you get with the business of life and never do things you intend to do. I'm still shocked that it's been 9 years in Texas, in this house, and I just now put a block party on my calender and set the date in stone by handing out invitations. So let me tell you about it. . .
We've had several new neighbors move into the neighborhood. When we lived in Colorado, and had just moved into our first home, our neighbors behind us had an ice cream social just so that all the neighborhood could meet us. We were so blessed by that and it spurred great relationships with many of them for the next 6 years. In fact, we still visit them when we return to Colorado for fun!
So, I've been telling the kids for years that we should host a party like that to meet our neighbors here in Texas. What's the worst that could happen? Maybe only 1 neighbor would show? Well, then you hang out with one neighbor eating ice cream! Sounds fun to me.
Our neighborhood is extremely dead. Everyone has their driveways in the back of their houses and so we never run into anyone. We don't see many people mowing their lawns because so many of them have yard services. It's hot 8 months out of the year so no one hangs out in the street playing. We are just about the only house with kids.
Last month, we were discussing all this around the dinner table and we decided to set a date and make up some flyers. The kids made the flyers for all 22 houses on our street, I bought ice cream and told my neighbor our plan. She loved it and committed to coming, bringing an ice cream scooper and some sprinkles. About 4 days before the party, we knocked on doors and personally handed out the flyers. We only talked with maybe 7 of the 22 houses but they were all very positive and the children walked away saying, "We have some really nice neighbors"! My thoughts exactly and all it takes is a little friendliness to find that out.
Well, the night came and we wondered if anyone would come. Before we had even finished our dinner and gotten out there with our own ice cream, a man who lives all the way at the end of our court came walking onto our lawn with his ice chest full of popsicles and lawn chair! We all hustled outside, as the neighbors flooded out of their caves with waffle cones and ice cream to share! We talked and visited well after dark and there was even talk of having another block party this month! We found out that one man has lived here for 24 years! Another neighbor discovered that she went to high school with another neighbor and they live 5 houses down from each other and never knew it! Success is so sweet. . .
What's come of it now that we have returned to our caves? Well, my next door neighbor called me and asked if she could use my number as her emergency contact for a babysitter. Both Olivia and Anthony have mowing and watering jobs for the summer. Olivia has babysat for our new neighbor who is a first time mom. This is all more than I was hoping for.
I'm so glad I finally listened to that voice that persistently kept saying every year for 9 years, "Let's have a block party!"
Kristin
Monday, May 14, 2012
Wednesday, April 11, 2012
Saving money continued
So I thought I'd write an update to last months post. How did I do with estimating what we needed to live off of for a month? Well. . . pretty good with the exception of a few things. The last week we ran out of butter. Rich was a little miffed and suggested I go pick up some but I reminded him that buying what we run out of defeats the purpose. So we went a week without butter. No problem, we just used oil when cooking and put coconut oil on our toast. Yum! I bought too much of other things so when it was time to shop for this month, I just didn't need to buy those things. 2 bottles of Olive oil is too much for us.
This month when I went shopping and then came home to put everything away, I realized I bought some things I thought we were out of but weren't. Like paper plates and plastic wrap. That was a bummer because I spent money I didn't need to. Could I have taken them back? Sure, but I hate doing that. Live and Learn. I need to remember where I've put things!
I'm really digging this once a month shopping thing. It makes my life easier, because I'm not running to the store all the time. I know what we need to make it through the month and. . . what we really don't need. It also makes me aware of how much things cost so that I can recognize a deal when I see one.
So on the "saving money" note, I wanted to share a story with you.
We've needed a highchair now for about 2 months. I had been putting Levi in the swing and sitting myself down on the kitchen floor to feed him. That worked for awhile but was a killer on my back and knees! Over time he began to not really like his swing anymore since he can sit up and his swing is in a somewhat reclining position so I began shopping for a good deal on a high chair. Since we really don't think we will have anymore children, I didn't want to pay much. I do have a flimsy highchair with no padding that straps to a regular chair like a booster seat but the problem with it is we have no extra kitchen chairs in our house anymore! We'll use it for camping.
So the search began. I went to 2 consignment stores and 2 thrift stores. No high chairs except at one store but it was pink and brown polk-a-dotted. I looked at new ones on Amazon and the cheapest one was $55. I did check on Craigslist but there was nothing that day that I looked. One night while on a date with my hubby, we decided to go to Babies R Us to price them. I had a gift card that would give us a small discount. Oh my, I was shocked to see that the cheapest one there was $80!
So one Saturday as I was on my way to buy some fresh produce, I saw a sign for a garage sale. I quickly make a decision to check it out just in case there happened to be a high chair for sale. Sure enough, there was! Really? Now I really wanted one on wheels so that I could well . . . wheel it around the kitchen! It did have wheels! The only problem with it was it was filthy! I mean disgustingly gross filthy. But guess what she was asking for this food caked, who know what splattered all over, filthy high chair on wheels? Five Bucks. She actually said, " I'm just trying to get my stuff out of my garage. All you'll need is a power hose and some bleach to clean this up. I'll give it to you for $5."
Probably most people would have thought, "No way, that's just gross!" But I thought, "I'm not too good for this. A little work and I'll have this looking brand new and if not, I'll only be out $5!" So I took it home and hosed it down with my powered hose and some real soapy soap.
And here we are! Its a Chicco brand which online new cost over $100! It reclines, folds up for storage, adjusts to fit right up to your table, and has safety locks on the wheels if you don't want it to roll. Moral of the story? Sometimes it pays to not be snooty. Or, if you look close enough there might be a gem in that garbage heap that just needs a little polishing!
And. . . the best part about it is that he likes it!
Thursday, March 8, 2012
Attempting to cut the grocery bill!
Ok, it's just crazy trying to feed a family of 8! Lately I've been feeling like I'm always at the grocery store buying food. Every 3rd day it seems, I'm off to pick up something I need, or forgot the last time I was there. This was getting me down since it takes gas to get there and money to buy the food. I mean it's not like we have money we can just keep dishing out!
Now, I feel like I'm pretty thrifty. I mean I make our meals from scratch! It's not like I buy a bunch of convenient food. We hardly ever eat out. We try and eat healthy so that does cost more, but you'd think it would all even out. I never buy steak and having a chicken breast is a rare treat at our house. I buy ground beef and whole chickens and stretch the meat in soups and casseroles. We eat lots of fruit for snacks instead of chips or crackers and we actually limit our kids helpings at meals. I know that might sound mean, but our kids have always been big eaters and there is no need to gorge at meals. We have to teach them to have self control.
I used to keep a running tab of how much I spent on food, always writing down each receipt when I got home and then totaling it up at the end of the month. I got out of the habit of doing that and it didn't seem to help me buy less. I just was shocked at the end of the month and felt guilty that I wasn't a better steward of our grocery money.
So as I was feeling down the other day that I'm at the store way too much, I picked up a magazine and saw an article titled The Cost of Having Children. Out of the 10 things listed to do, I do 8 of them already! Use cloth diapers. . . yes, do that already. Make your own laundry soap. . . .yep, got that one figured out. Don't eat out but make your own meals. . . check, do that too. Pay cash for your vehicles. . . we've always done that. Use cloth napkins. . . do that one too. The only thing I don't do is eat a lot of pork because it's cheaper (it's also not so good for you, so not willing to try that one) and. . . shop for the whole month at one time.
Hummm. . . . I had to think about that one. The writer of the article said it helps save you money because it keeps you out of the stores, so you aren't buying things that aren't necessary. Plus it forces you to use up what's in your frig and cupboards before shopping again for the next month. So I tried it.
I already had a list of all the things I want to keep on hand from food, to paper products to cat food. I took out my list and tried as best I could to estimate how much I'd need for the month. Olive oil . . . maybe 2 bottles since I make my own salad dressing. You get the idea.
The next thing we had to figure out was where to put everything. We don't have a garage since it's been converted into a family room. Plus with the Texas heat, I didn't think that was a very good option anyway. I think it was actually Anthony who looked up as we were discussing this over dinner one night and said, "Mom! We have tons of space all along the top of our kitchen cupboards!" He's a genius! Ok, it doesn't look all that great but so far I'm only using that ledge above the refrigerator so it just looks like I've got a bunch of food on top of my refrigerator which is not within sight when you walk into our house anyway.
The other thing I did was utilize our second refrigerator. I realized I would need more freezer space so I cleaned out my freezer and put much of that stuff like nuts, flours, and bread in my second refrigerator instead. Which opened the freezer up a lot for frozen fruit, meat, and frozen veggies.
I love this kind of stuff. I mean this is a real challenge. So after totaling up last months receipts, I decided to shoot for a lower goal of course. I took my calculator to Costco and added everything up as I went. Olivia helped me by pushing a second cart and I was thrilled to see that I spent $100 less than I expected to!
This all excludes fresh fruit and vegetables because you can't really buy those things for a whole month. So I set aside in my mind $50 a week for that stuff, not really knowing how much it costs us but I know we eat a lot of it. I'm proud to say, that today I went to Sprouts and only spent $28! I couldn't believe that I walked out of there with 4 bags of fresh produce for under $30.
I bought 4 heads of lettuce
20 apples
9 avocados
4 white onions
2 red onions
2 bunches of bananas
1 stalk of celery
3 red peppers
6 oranges
14 tomatoes
4 sweet potatoes
10 red potatoes
We'll see how we do the rest of the month but after a week into this, I can say, it's making my life easier and I think we'll save some money! We are pretty stocked up on food and I don't feel the urgency to run to the store.
Praise God he gives us help before we even ask for it!
Hope you were able to get some ideas from reading this. I don't usually post about such practical things but I was encouraged to do so.
Blessings!
Kristin
Now, I feel like I'm pretty thrifty. I mean I make our meals from scratch! It's not like I buy a bunch of convenient food. We hardly ever eat out. We try and eat healthy so that does cost more, but you'd think it would all even out. I never buy steak and having a chicken breast is a rare treat at our house. I buy ground beef and whole chickens and stretch the meat in soups and casseroles. We eat lots of fruit for snacks instead of chips or crackers and we actually limit our kids helpings at meals. I know that might sound mean, but our kids have always been big eaters and there is no need to gorge at meals. We have to teach them to have self control.
I used to keep a running tab of how much I spent on food, always writing down each receipt when I got home and then totaling it up at the end of the month. I got out of the habit of doing that and it didn't seem to help me buy less. I just was shocked at the end of the month and felt guilty that I wasn't a better steward of our grocery money.
So as I was feeling down the other day that I'm at the store way too much, I picked up a magazine and saw an article titled The Cost of Having Children. Out of the 10 things listed to do, I do 8 of them already! Use cloth diapers. . . yes, do that already. Make your own laundry soap. . . .yep, got that one figured out. Don't eat out but make your own meals. . . check, do that too. Pay cash for your vehicles. . . we've always done that. Use cloth napkins. . . do that one too. The only thing I don't do is eat a lot of pork because it's cheaper (it's also not so good for you, so not willing to try that one) and. . . shop for the whole month at one time.
Hummm. . . . I had to think about that one. The writer of the article said it helps save you money because it keeps you out of the stores, so you aren't buying things that aren't necessary. Plus it forces you to use up what's in your frig and cupboards before shopping again for the next month. So I tried it.
I already had a list of all the things I want to keep on hand from food, to paper products to cat food. I took out my list and tried as best I could to estimate how much I'd need for the month. Olive oil . . . maybe 2 bottles since I make my own salad dressing. You get the idea.
The next thing we had to figure out was where to put everything. We don't have a garage since it's been converted into a family room. Plus with the Texas heat, I didn't think that was a very good option anyway. I think it was actually Anthony who looked up as we were discussing this over dinner one night and said, "Mom! We have tons of space all along the top of our kitchen cupboards!" He's a genius! Ok, it doesn't look all that great but so far I'm only using that ledge above the refrigerator so it just looks like I've got a bunch of food on top of my refrigerator which is not within sight when you walk into our house anyway.
The other thing I did was utilize our second refrigerator. I realized I would need more freezer space so I cleaned out my freezer and put much of that stuff like nuts, flours, and bread in my second refrigerator instead. Which opened the freezer up a lot for frozen fruit, meat, and frozen veggies.
I love this kind of stuff. I mean this is a real challenge. So after totaling up last months receipts, I decided to shoot for a lower goal of course. I took my calculator to Costco and added everything up as I went. Olivia helped me by pushing a second cart and I was thrilled to see that I spent $100 less than I expected to!
This all excludes fresh fruit and vegetables because you can't really buy those things for a whole month. So I set aside in my mind $50 a week for that stuff, not really knowing how much it costs us but I know we eat a lot of it. I'm proud to say, that today I went to Sprouts and only spent $28! I couldn't believe that I walked out of there with 4 bags of fresh produce for under $30.
I bought 4 heads of lettuce
20 apples
9 avocados
4 white onions
2 red onions
2 bunches of bananas
1 stalk of celery
3 red peppers
6 oranges
14 tomatoes
4 sweet potatoes
10 red potatoes
We'll see how we do the rest of the month but after a week into this, I can say, it's making my life easier and I think we'll save some money! We are pretty stocked up on food and I don't feel the urgency to run to the store.
Praise God he gives us help before we even ask for it!
Hope you were able to get some ideas from reading this. I don't usually post about such practical things but I was encouraged to do so.
Blessings!
Kristin
Tuesday, February 7, 2012
Always Learning
I haven't posted anything since October! I've thought about it several times but it's never a very good time for me to just sit down and write anymore. I can't even keep in touch with friends by phone anymore because of the time it takes to sit down and talk. There is always something just a tad bit more urgent!
Like this little guy! Levi is 6 months old now and just as
cute as a bug in a rug. I don't personally think bugs on rugs are very cute but that expression just seems to communicate something special!
I titled this entry "Always Learning" because I feel like I am doing just that. Mostly in regards to health.
With Levi, I've recently learned how to make my own formula. It became obvious a few months ago that I was not producing enough breast milk for him especially in the late afternoon. After trying two different organic formulas, it became apparent that they were constipating him. I tried adding a few natural things to his formula to help him go but wasn't real comfortable with that. How much should I give him and I knew it worked for adults but what about babies? Anyway, checking out all the ingredients in the conventional formula I realized that my little guy was getting corn syrup in his formula and soy in some way shape or form. These were top notch Organic formulas that cost a lot of money!
So, I researched making my own. I had a recipe but had always been intimidated by the list of 12 ingredients! Once I got over that and really checked it out, I realized I had already in my cupboard 7 of the items necessary! And what made it easier was that the other 5 could be found at the same website and ordered and shipped to my door!
So now, I've done it for 3 weeks and it's easy. I've even got the recipe memorized. No more constipation and I know exactly what is going into his mouth.
This is amazing to me! Why don't we trust ourselves? Why feel inferior to the big guys who produce food for us and our children? I mean the companies who make formula aren't certified doctors or nutritionists are they? Even if they are. . . do they know more about health than we do? Have you looked at the items they call food at the grocery stores? I don't think they have our best interests in mind.
Everything is at the tip of our fingers these days with the web being so accessible. If you don't know, look it up and if it conflicts with other sources, then compare and use common sense to make wise choices of who to believe.
As many of you know, Micah was diagnosed with epilepsy right before Levi was born about 7 months ago. We had all the tests run that we had with Olivia when she was little. Turns out he has the same exact type of epilepsy as Olivia did. Does epilepsy run in our family? Nope. Not one relative on either side had epilepsy or seizures of any kind. As I research this, I'm finding that food allergies can cause seizures. Olivia is sensitive to about 60 things. Is it coincidence that she had epilepsy as a child? It's really complicated and too much to explain here. I'm not saying that allergies are causing his seizures directly but in a round about way. If you want specifics, e-mail me and I'll direct you to the website I found.
Of course, the neurologist wants to medicate him. And it may be that in the end we decide to, but not before researching our options. The medication that she recommends is Keppra but when we began checking out this medicine we found that the side effect is aggressiveness. In my opinion, there is enough of this in Micah already that needs addressing because he is a normal 3 year old. Why confuse this issue with some outside medication if we don't have to?
With Olivia we felt we didn't have options. We trusted the professionals and didn't choose to learn or be informed ourselves. We didn't actively take our children's healthcare into our own hands. We didn't really know any better. 16 years later, we are different people. We have learned enough about our health to know that sometimes the doctors don't know best.
So what are we going to do? Right now we are going to try a diet and have a screening done on him to check for food sensitivities, gut issues, and brain pathogens. I've been on the computer all week checking out alternative cures for Epilepsy and have found quite a bit, actually. I had no idea there were other options to choose from! No one told us.
And maybe, they won't help him in the end but we'll be able to say we tried everything and did our best as his parents to make a wise choice for his health care. In the meantime, I'm learning a whole lot!
Blessings!
Kristin
Wednesday, October 5, 2011
Recent, random pictures
| Levi is 2 1/2 months old now and really likes to make eye contact and smile at you. Mornings are his best time. He is almost laughing. Funny how we aren't born able to do all these things at once. |
| He is waiting for some sort of entertainment. " Do something, Mom, to make me laugh. The more ridiculous the better!" |
| Julia (11) and Anthony (13) on the train. |
| It took Micah a little while to warm up to Auntie Lisa but in the end she won his heart just like she has all our kids. She used reverse psychology and told him not to kiss her, so he did, of course! |
| Olivia with her Dad |
| Levi is totally bored with baseball. He just sleeps the whole time or snacks. |
| Uncle Bart and Dominic with Aunt Lisa. Micah called Uncle Bart, Uncle Bark! So cute! |
| Brandon and Dominic. These two are inseparable when they are together . Brandon is a big reason why Dominic wanted to play baseball in the first place. |
Wednesday, September 14, 2011
Waking from Summer Hibernation
We finally had a decent weather day and were able to play outside after many months of being cooped up. It was so beautiful, even though everything is all dried up, to breath some fresh air again!
We have switched school curriculums to a more Charlotte Mason approach and she advocates what she calls "nature walks". So with nature journals in hand, we ventured outside and walked down to the creek behind our house. Texas is in the middle of a drought as you can tell by the inch of water left in the creek. The kids could literally walk across to the other side without hardly getting their shoes wet!
And this is what they were trying to go see! These pretty flowers were growing wild on the side of the creek and they wanted to draw them and record details about them in their nature journals. I think they are called Black- eyed Susans but I'm not totally sure about that.
I did not want to walk across to the other side for fear I'd slip on the moss plus I had Levi asleep in the stroller. So Micah and I sat on the edge of the bank and watched the Water Hoppers jump on top of the water and the minnows swimming around and the beautiful dragon flies fluttering by.
I was reminded of how wonderful God's creation is!
I love my stroller that I found at a garage sale a few years ago. Levi can sleep on his tummy in it because it reclines almost completely flat. Doesn't he look like a little frog in it?
| When the temps drop down into the 60's and low 70's at night, then it's time for a backyard bon-fire! |
I'm really enjoying watching the personalities of our children blossoming in such different ways. It's common to hear that all kids are different but when they are young it's sometimes hard to see. They all liked to eat, play in the water, and unroll the toilet paper! But now as they grow into teenagers, they are coming into their own, if you will.
Julia loves to draw and she is really good at it because she has an eye for detail. I have a wall devoted to the kid's art work and I think it is mostly hers. She remembers everything ever said to her and almost all events in our family she has recorded in her brain! It truly is amazing. She can spell super accurately because she sees a word written and so therefore she can remember what the word should look like.
She is also the only one who faithfully gives me a goodnight kiss without fail!
Micah is still little so I'm curious how his personality will continue to develop. Right now, he loves repetition so we sing the same songs every night before bed. He even says the same thing every night. "Is Dominic and Antony (no "th" in his name) coming to bed?"
He copies everything we say and DO even. We all got a great laugh when he and Dominic were playing hide and seek one morning. Everywhere Dominic hid Micah took note. When it was Micah's turn to hide, he would hide in the same exact place. He truly thought no one would know where he was! One time Dominic dove under the covers of the bed to hide. Then when it was Micah's turn, he couldn't get into the bed fast enough so he just grabbed the blanket and threw it over his head. Dominic yelled "Ready or not!" And there stood Micah in the middle of the room with a blanket over his head and still as could be! It was really funny!
Olivia is very responsible. She loves to clean and throw things away and be organized. At least every 6 weeks, you'll find her going through every nook and cranny of her room, throwing things away, organizing and cleaning her room. She feels so much better with less stuff to deal with. Recently she filled up 6 bags of clothes and put them out in the shed so she would have less to choose from!
Olivia has a growing interest in First Aid and fire fighting. She has been reading books about real life emergency situations and has decided she wants to be an organ donor.
She rides her bike every morning at 6:30 a.m. with her brother Anthony for exercise.
She loves music and has recently written a song and sang it with a friend in church. She plays the violin in the church orchestra and is now really getting into the piano. She loves classical music.
Saturday, August 27, 2011
Smiles!
Levi is now smiling a lot! He started smiling at about 2 weeks old but they were so brief it was impossible to catch on camera. Now at 4 weeks, he is smiling tons.
I know this stage changes so fast and I'll forget all the incredibleness of it, so I'm trying to take it all in while I can. One friend reminded me how awesome it is that we have the capability to take pictures and video to help us remember. Years ago that wasn't an option!
Levi isn't the only one around here, that wears a smile!
Mornings like these make me smile. It doesn't take long for me to change my perspective from, "I'm wasting time here snuggling with my newborn" to "No time is wasted snuggling with one of God's children!"
Levi loves to look up. His head is always back trying to see all that's above him, I guess. It seems to me, it would hurt his neck but he sure likes it. I can tell that he hears my voice and is really studying his mama face.
"Oh, my mama is so beautiful!"
These were taken yesterday at 5 weeks old.
I love this elephant but it is about as big as he is right now.
This is one of my favorite onesies because of the color and it says "Apple of my Eye".
This picture reminds of Popeye the Sailer Man!
Micah says so many darling this these days. I wish I could remember them all. We sing to him every night and he requests 4 songs never calling them by their actual titles. Jesus Love Me is "the Bible song" The doxology is "the Amen song" and the funniest is Amazing Grace. He calls it "the wretch song!" because He saved a wretch like me!
We also sing This Little Light of Mine and he holds up his foot as his light and we do all the motions with his toes! You know, hide it under a bushel, No! and Don't let Satan blow it out! We blow on his toes and he giggles and giggles.
Just about every time Micah holds Levi like in the pictures above, I grab the camera and take their picture so now he tells me to. As soon as they get situated, he says "Take my picture, ok?"
These two will be best buds one day soon and I get to experience it with them. Thank you Jesus!
Thursday, August 18, 2011
When God Speaks
Levi, above, at 2 weeks
Gazing out the window at 3 weeks old
This is how I've felt the last 2 months or more, trapped inside the house. Well maybe not "trapped" but not happy about the ongoing heat we've been experiencing here in Texas this summer. It was unbearable when I was pregnant. I stayed home as much as possible only leaving the house to go to church on Sundays or to take the kids swimming at a friends house because that meant I could get in the water myself. Now that Levi is living outside my body, I'm able to somewhat enjoy going outside if it's early morning or after dark. We almost broke a record of 42 days in a row over 100* but missed it by 2 days.
Right now it's 104*.
This might not be too big of a deal to you, but I love to be outside enjoying a cool breeze. I don't mind the heat because I grew up in it living in Modesto, California. At least there it cooled off at night. We haven't been able to open our windows here for over 3 months because the temps drop to a warm 85* at night and the air feels stagnant. Don't get me wrong, I'm not complaining but just trying to communicate what you are probably NOT experiencing since it's been unseasonably cooler in most states besides ours this summer.
So back to my story. For the past few months I've been dreaming about taking a vacation to someplace cooler to get out of this heat. Normally, I'd pack up the kids and go to Colorado or in years past, we've taken a long weekend and rented a cabin in the Arkansas mountains to escape the heat for a reprieve.
Since I was expecting and now we have a newborn, this is an impossibility. I just have to suck it up and endure it. . . but not without joy. I have a choice. I can grumble and complain and be downright discontent or . . . I can let God give me a new perspective. And He did just that a few weeks ago on a Tuesday night.
I love baby yawns!
Tuesday night is when we go to a weekly prayer night at Gospel for Asia. Usually someone shares a short devotional about something the Lord has been teaching them. On this particular night, the speaker shared about suffering. He spoke of how hot it's been and how easy it is when working outside to get dehydrated and how wonderful cold water is at a time like that. It's so easy to be thankful for water when we really need it. Then he shared about how our brothers and sisters in Christ who live in hostile countries in Asia suffer when they openly decide to follow Jesus. It is very common for them to be banned from the community well. They are then forced to drink pond water where the local people wash their clothes and let their cattle drink. Their suffering means that they will most likely get diseases from the unclean water and could eventually die.
Gospel for Asia is working to bring clean water to some of these remote areas through providing wells called "Jesus Wells" where no one is banned from using them. Not only do they get the physical benefit of taking in clean water but the well also communicates God's love for all. He died for us while we were yet sinners! My small suffering of living in the Texas heat is bringing others new life!
God changed my perspective when I heard this message. God spoke to my heart and gave me a glimpse of what he sees. If only I could go to visit with my sisters and brothers in Christ across the world every few months to understand their plight better, I wouldn't grumble and complain about my circumstances. I think I would endure them gladly so that others may live!
Now as I look outside and find myself wishing the weather was cooler, I remember what God told me that night. He shared with me the plight of those whose suffering could mean death and he asks me to put aside my wishes for a season so that they might have life!
Friday, July 29, 2011
Announcing Levi Zachariah Lodi!
I tried to just pick out a few of my favorite photos, thinking I had about 5. After choosing, I realized that it's more like 15! Hope you like to see newborn pictures as much as I do!
The one above is of Micah meeting his baby brother for the first time. Levi was about 7 hours old at this point. Since he was born at 1:06 a.m. Micah was sleeping and didn't get in on all the middle of the night action (thank God). Meaning the "action" I'm referring to was not all hunky dory.
This birth was a whopping 18 1/2 hrs. long from start to finish and Levi didn't come sliding out like all the others. I actually struggled to get him to come for 35 minutes which seemed like an eternity. I was completely dialated for that amount of time but no baby was making his appearance and I wasn't feeling any of the normal things that signal any changes being made with each grueling contraction I endured!
It was daunting to say the least. But finally God was gracious and he came on July 22, 2011 an hour after midnight. I've never been so relieved in all my life! I couldn't give God enough praise for seeing me through that birth. I never would have expected my 6th child to be so difficult, after all my body had done this 5 other times.
I realize now that I had the dream birth when Micah was born, 3 years ago. I labored for 8 hours and pushed for 4 minutes with him. I expected this one would go even faster and be even smoother since I was more prepared for what to expect. Guess, I had some unrealistic expectations.
But now that it's all behind us, we are on to the fun stage of taking care of our newest member of our family. Everyone is in love with our little "pickle" as we so affectionately call him.
Every time I see the picture above, I feel like I've seen it before. Turns out I have the exact same picture of our Julia in the same pose and the same sleeper, just taken 11 years ago! The resemblance is uncanny!
Levi weighed 7 lbs. 10 oz and was 20 1/4 inches long and was a week early, exactly. If he would have been full term, he would have been in the 8 lb range and would have been our biggest baby.
In the week that we've gotten to know Levi, we've noted that he loves to be held in this upright position with his belly on yours. He snuggles his little head right up under your chin if you let him. Once he is fully asleep, we try and put him down to get a few things done, but he rarely lets us. Within 10 minutes or so, he wakes up and fusses until you pick him up and hold him in his favorite position and then he conks out again. My midwife pointed out that he is used to going everywhere I do and was never put down to sleep alone while in the womb. For the time being, we are enjoying it although I'm sure there will be a time when we teach him to be content by himself for a bit.
Love this one that shows just how small and fragile babies are!
Levi is 1 week old in the next few pictures. His eyes are a dark grey at this point but I'm sure they will be brown eventually as we all have brown eyes except for Olivia. Hers are hazel. He does prefer to be on his tummy if he isn't in someone's arms.
| I adore this picture! Julia was holding him and he just naturally was propped up like this! Julia is ALWAYS available to hold him! She would never put him down if he was all hers. |
He is our only baby with hardly any hair on top of his head. I hope that what he does have doesn't fall out or he will really look like an old man!
Isn't this one funny? He looks like he is in a yoga position and is meditating on something enjoyable.
Olivia took these. She loves photography and had seen this idea somewhere else with the bow.
Our little gift from God sent straight from heaven. It's really true. Olivia had been praying I would get pregnant by the end of the year. I had not conceived for over 2 years and just thought we were done having children since I was 43 at the time. But at Thanksgiving of last year I realized I was pregnant! Shocker! We tease her that it was all her fault.
Olivia made this one black and white and I like the way it turned out.
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